tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7652455164112350621.post4848637488194583170..comments2024-01-21T13:41:53.476+03:00Comments on This Lady Says: Niseeb! Part 1This Ladyhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/10410444968386079197noreply@blogger.comBlogger19125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7652455164112350621.post-13477660227705074532007-10-17T09:45:00.000+03:002007-10-17T09:45:00.000+03:00Typical girls' thoughts :) it reminds of the sayi...Typical girls' thoughts :) it reminds of the saying "Everybody wants to go to heaven, but nobody wants to die"<BR/>Everybody wants happiness regardless of their social status, for that matter. No one can be sure that they will be ALWAYS happy when they get married, and no one should expect to be always happy. Happiness would be meaningless if it wasn't punctuated with some difficult moments. It's important to think ahead and see how life is going to be when it's too late to go back and change your past decisions. Life will be really difficult if one is old and lonely too. Don't be too picky when someone falls in love with you! <BR/>Nice blog, Keep it up :)<BR/>KhalidKhalidhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/06222305201450032269noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7652455164112350621.post-10697193508840775712007-10-15T03:11:00.000+03:002007-10-15T03:11:00.000+03:00I just saw this post, I really love it. It's exact...I just saw this post, I really love it. It's exactly what I always say. Sometimes you are better off alone than with a man who makes your life hell!! Some people might think, "Ok at least you have kids" but what kids would be happy in such an unhealthy environment? <BR/>I am no expert but I know one thing: Marriage has to worked on, true, BUT if you are not happy, then trying to make it work just delays the inevitable, not saving the marriage. Yes happiness is the key.<BR/><BR/>New Bride that sucks, even if you have one child they keep saying, come one the next one before you get too old! Lol it's like a marathon running or something lool. Look at Geena Davis she is fifty something and her kids are toddlers!Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7652455164112350621.post-32751454709873174572007-10-07T18:41:00.000+03:002007-10-07T18:41:00.000+03:00Don't worry, they're always like that :PDon't worry, they're always like that :P3baidhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/17393641377865819874noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7652455164112350621.post-86212609967355838982007-10-07T09:42:00.000+03:002007-10-07T09:42:00.000+03:00mmmm I am too lost with my self to comment here......mmmm I am too lost with my self to comment here...but staying single os not a bad idea...I wouldnt mind doing that after my experience..Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7652455164112350621.post-37519474355631959102007-10-07T05:53:00.000+03:002007-10-07T05:53:00.000+03:00Read my post :) I have a solution!Read my post :) I have a solution!Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7652455164112350621.post-71562412931758760802007-10-06T15:41:00.000+03:002007-10-06T15:41:00.000+03:00I know! Its annoying! No one in my family got marr...I know! Its annoying! No one in my family got married at an early age. So there's no pressure there.<BR/><BR/>But when it comes to the older women relatives, Aaaaaaaaaaaaah!This Ladyhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/10410444968386079197noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7652455164112350621.post-71374388246128486972007-10-06T14:03:00.000+03:002007-10-06T14:03:00.000+03:00Why the hell do they consider a girl that is in he...Why the hell do they consider a girl that is in here mid 20 to 30 as 3anis, I hate this word, they reason for zawaj 3alah i3jilah , and then you end up with an unhappy couple that may be at the brick of divorce, and when a girl gets married no matter to who " doodat-hom " tabrid. I don't know what's up with this society but god help you girls.Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7652455164112350621.post-20224536596444306652007-10-06T02:42:00.000+03:002007-10-06T02:42:00.000+03:00Nice post.I say do what you have to do to live hap...Nice post.<BR/><BR/>I say do what you have to do to live happy, by your rules not <BR/>Forced social rules.Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7652455164112350621.post-85598883829980585502007-10-06T01:22:00.000+03:002007-10-06T01:22:00.000+03:00hm yes ... but i am more asked: "when r you gradua...hm yes ... but i am more asked: "when r you graduating" a thousand time a day!<BR/><BR/>and about the loveless marriage, here is a nice movie to watch:<BR/>"The Painted Veil"<BR/><BR/>:) older people like to rush things up, maybe to catch up with all the events they wish to see :DDeemahttps://www.blogger.com/profile/08308596665343265262noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7652455164112350621.post-15084642438470263982007-10-05T16:28:00.000+03:002007-10-05T16:28:00.000+03:00Definitely. With age comes maturity (which so many...Definitely. With age comes maturity (which so many newlyweds lack these days)<BR/><BR/>My parents got married in their late 20's. By that time, my dad was independent, stable in his job, and my mom wasnt a needy youngster. She was a mature lady. Their relationship is a guideline for me.This Ladyhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/10410444968386079197noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7652455164112350621.post-86522873833832619392007-10-05T15:33:00.000+03:002007-10-05T15:33:00.000+03:00It is something which is difficult to unwind in ou...It is something which is difficult to unwind in our society. Its sad but true, the way they have things setup is that they want people to get married as soon as possible. It OTHER people's goals imposed on you which is really sad. <BR/><BR/>But for those who did and are married they are better off living away from Kuwait for a bit. I have seen it a lot, some of the couples that have gotten married and lived in the UK, US, UAE, Bahrain, or somewhere else for a bit tend to be closer together and without getting pressured from the outside to do anything. That is what I have liked seeing, I like seeing close couples and when they are on their own they have no one to depend on but each other. So I think thats a healthy thing. Just a different perspective. <BR/><BR/><BR/>On another note, I tend to find some older women attractive because of their maturity and the way they carry themselves. And a lot facts point out women don't come into their prime except in their late 20s and early 30s!Marzouqhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/17912171951396669252noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7652455164112350621.post-42477719837590003062007-10-05T02:36:00.000+03:002007-10-05T02:36:00.000+03:00Oh, I just realized I got a proposal!FORGET EVERYT...Oh, I just realized I got a proposal!<BR/><BR/>FORGET EVERYTHING I SAID, PEOPLE! <BR/><BR/>I accept! LOL!This Ladyhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/10410444968386079197noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7652455164112350621.post-66001034469946049912007-10-05T02:34:00.000+03:002007-10-05T02:34:00.000+03:00yeah that's what bothers me. the pressure they put...yeah that's what bothers me. the pressure they put on you. Really, i'm happy being single! There's still so much I can do. <BR/>And I want to get married. Just NOT NOW.<BR/>New Bride : Allah i3eenich! I dont want someone nagging me to get pregnant. I want to live with my husband alone for a while to get to know each other more. Who needs more responsibility? When the time is right, u should definitely consider kids. But I wouldnt want one at the beginning of our marriage.This Ladyhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/10410444968386079197noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7652455164112350621.post-50630843414141476502007-10-04T23:22:00.000+03:002007-10-04T23:22:00.000+03:00ambeeh this is kuwait and these things will never ...ambeeh this is kuwait and these things will never end guess what when got married last year i was 25 o yes i ve been throght all that but guess what old women r telling me : 7emlaay bsr3aa tra enta tezawajtay kbeeera !!! what ???? ana my plan was to not get married b4 28 bas 9arat chthee oooof ma nkhale9 al7een el7anaa yalaha 7emlay o 7emlay ooofNewQ8 Bridehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/00075060143546411404noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7652455164112350621.post-44504198415662436672007-10-04T20:42:00.000+03:002007-10-04T20:42:00.000+03:00I don't get why in this culture a women are in nee...I don't get why in this culture a women are in need for a man to feel complete, happy, and safe!<BR/>if you like you said you pass thirty or even less you are spinster and a burden to your family! it sucks <BR/><BR/>Society imposes that idea on us but some of us do truly believe it!isaythedarnestthingshttps://www.blogger.com/profile/00494142161987568760noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7652455164112350621.post-59777929237661766492007-10-04T17:58:00.000+03:002007-10-04T17:58:00.000+03:00*proposes* I'm a Lord who needs a Lady XD Lord Nut...*proposes* <BR/><BR/>I'm a Lord who needs a Lady XD <BR/><BR/>Lord NuttyAnonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7652455164112350621.post-2794767146197664582007-10-04T17:18:00.000+03:002007-10-04T17:18:00.000+03:00I agree with being against the unhappy marriage pa...I agree with being against the unhappy marriage part. Culture puts an expiry date on women, and thats how it is really. Honestly though, that's really wrong. This seems to have happened because in the older days it was easier to get married younger, now it is not as easy.Anonymoushttps://www.blogger.com/profile/12874481718577297058noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7652455164112350621.post-26192280329276971462007-10-04T16:09:00.000+03:002007-10-04T16:09:00.000+03:00Exactly. The word HAPPY says it all.Btw, I'm not a...Exactly. The word HAPPY says it all.<BR/><BR/>Btw, I'm not anti-marriage! I'm just anti-unhappy marriages.This Ladyhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/10410444968386079197noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7652455164112350621.post-60984542248553393822007-10-04T09:04:00.000+03:002007-10-04T09:04:00.000+03:00"Isn’t it better to be single and happy than marri..."Isn’t it better to be single and happy than married and miserable?"<BR/><BR/> Yes it isHasan.Bhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/15841395384303836206noreply@blogger.com